Is Divorce Your Path to Happiness?

MILFORD, N.J. - March 14, 2021 - If you're at any point in the divorce continuum—contemplating divorce, going through or recovering from one—chances are you feel like your world is coming to an end. All is doom and gloom and happiness is forever out of reach.

We marry with the expectation that it is the straight path to happiness. That our partners are going to make us happy, and the rest of our lives will be a fairy tale.

But after the wedding, reality sets in and we eventually discover that married life is not what we hoped it would be, and for at least 40% of us, the anticipated happy ending turns into a divorce.

We enter into our marriages attached to a specific life script in which our spouses are the protagonists of a happy life only they can bring to us.

So, when our marriages end, we waste precious time and joy feeling bad about ourselves, wondering what's wrong with us, fearing we will never feel happy again.

The good news is that you have the power to rewrite our own story and create the happy life you deserve.

Like a movie script, which can feature a different cast and an alternate ending, the movie of your life will begin anew after a divorce, with you in the director's chair, free to choose the cast of characters, the plot and an epic ending.

Our marriages and divorces are not scarlet letters that define or mutilate us for life.

Cut through the pain divorce is causing you and instead reframe the way you view the demise of your marriage from a failure to a detour on your road to happiness. They are stepping-stones in your personal journey and spiritual evolution.

Your spouse was put in your life for a purpose, and you fulfilled a purpose in your spouse's life as well.

Instead of hanging on to an outmoded script and an implausible ending, take time to reflect on the lessons learned from your relationship and use them as springboards to a happier life.

A divorce is not a failure unless you learn nothing from it.

Release the feelings of loss, failure and guilt and replace them with unlimited possibility.

When you let go, you are free to start over on a clean slate, develop a loving relationship with yourself and potentially recouple in the future—with a spouse you will appreciate more having been through a tough marriage.

Where is your divorce going to take you?

Excerpt from Relationship Solutions by Sonia Frontera.
www.soniafrontera.com

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